"All adversity is really an opportunity for our souls to grow" (John Gray)
Readers, life is not free from various pressures. Moreover, the nature of modern life is presenting a variety of risks. Until a sociologist Ulrich Beck was named the contemporary era with the risks (risk society). Modern Nature presents a rapid and often surprising.
Well, the pressure was actually formed character, characters, and simultaneously determines how people react in the future. Readers, on this occasion, I will describe four types of people in the face of such pressures. Let us discuss one by one type of man in the face of pressures of this life.
The first type, the type of brittle wood. Little pressure to make this man a broken charcoal. People like this look good everyday. But, very fragile in his heart. This guy is so easy to complain when trouble occurs.
Little trouble found him, this man immediately complained, feeling helpless, crying, asking for pity or help. These people need to practice positive thinking and the courage to face the realities of life.
Time magazine has presented the topic generation pupae (cacoon generation). Time to take the example in Japan, where many people become very soft because it is not used to facing adversity. Faced with these people, sometimes we have to be more courageous heart. Occasionally they need to learn to be trained to face adversity. Position us as their companion.
The second type, the type of steel plate. These people are usually able to survive the pressure at first. However, like iron, pressing it when the situation is increasingly large and complex, she began to bend and unstable. Likewise the people of this type. They are able to face the pressure, but not in the protracted condition.
Additional slightest pressure, making them give up and despair. Fortunately, these types of people are still willing to try to survive before finally giving up. This type of steel plate is still not trained. But, if you try really, this person will be able to build success in life.
The third type, the type of cotton. This type is quite flexible in the face of pressure. When pressure comes, people are able to be flexible. Try it you press a piece of cotton. He will follow the pressure that occurs. He was able to adjust when there is pressure. But, once passed, quickly he could return to its original state. He can soon forget the past and begin to return to the titi k start to start again.
The fourth type, the type of human ping pong ball. This is the ideal type and greatest. Never present the pressure on these people because the pressure will only make them work harder, more motivated and more creative. Look at the ping pong ball. When pressed, he would memantuk up with more awesome. I am reminded of the life story of the world motivator Anthony Robbins in one of his biography.
To motivate him, he accidentally bought a luxury building, while the money is not adequate. But this is precisely the financial pressures that make him more creative and financially challenged reach the level expected. This never happens with a head of regional sales performance is very good. However, this result makes his boss did not like. As a result, even with his superior who intentionally do not like him move to a more severe condition. But instead of complaining like the previous peer in the area. Instead, he tried to build netwok, changing the way work, and clearing organizations. In the second year in the area, precisely where he made it into the top three sales regions.
Another example is the novelist Fyodor Mikhailovich Dostoevsky. In the winter, he was in prison with a whipping cold wind, full of dirt floors an inch thick, and hard labor every day. He was like a herring in a tin. However, the frozen Siberia did not succeeded in silencing his creativity.
From there she gave birth to great written works, such as The Double and Notes of The Dead. He became the literary world. It is also experienced by Ho Chi Minh City. Vietnamese man who was called Uncle Ho should be in prison. But prison does not make him broke. He struggled with the poems that he wrote. A Comrade Paper Blanket into a fruit kondangnya work.
Well, readers, it's just a small example. What matters now is you. When you encounter difficulties, such as whether you? How would you react? No matter where you are today. However, the important move from the level of fragile wood type to type next. Until the end, you wake up to the level of mental ping-pong ball. At that moment, the difficulties and challenges which are no longer a worry for you. Is that as hard as you mentally?
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